Hello bloggy, I know what you're thinking. Mommy still loves you, right now, all these words down here posted by a very great friend of mine. She posted these words/note that actually got me thinking alot alot of things.
*Ps; Maine, sorry if I copied & paste these. I love you baby! :D
Number 1
They HATE nagging.. Their Gf's probably nags them more than their own mom. Mom kinda gave up on them :P Those just got in a relationship, still new...Obviously whatever you nag to them, they swallow it down. Listen or not, they may just fake it to make their partner happy. In a long run, they will really, get fed up of it. So yeah..try not to nag toooo much. You can care, but a limit is needed.
Number 2
NEVER stop what they love doing. Unless if it's really really unhealthy like drugs and what not. Smoking is never easy to stop. That may not be completely stopped, but it can be cut down. If they love to "Yam cha" with their friends every night, let it be. If they are so addicted to games, sports etc..let it be.. Otherwise, he may not be himself if we women try to mould them to something else.. Love someone for who they are.
Number 3
They love their freedom and space. They need time off with their friends and parties and clubbings.. football clubs..car teams..u name it..Respect their freedom..They don't have to be under 24 hours surveillance. Don't need to keep asking them where the hell are they..what are they doing.. yada yada yada
Number 3
They do small lies, more like white lies. NO guys are sooo damn honest. Unless they're..not men?
They lie ONLY when they needed to but they are not necessarily cheating on you..Just trying to make you happy or stop any spark which causes an argument. Example: When you are shopping for a new dress...and u take like 2-3 bloody hours to do so..u asked "How is this dress?"..The guy will just answer "Just get it" or "Yeah perfect..nice..etc".. They get bored shopping with u. So, get a female shopping partner rather than U tagging those men along.
Number 4
They hate waiting. Not only men hates to wait..but for a girl..waiting is tedious. However, we must notice this..men tolerates the wait more than women. They say..the girl must never wait for a guy if the guy is late..ridiculous no? If that is so..why do men have to always wait for women when they are soooo damn late putting on their tedious make-up, taking up hours to choose the perfect outfit, doing up their hair, bla bla bla. It seems like I am taking the guys side on this. Really...just go..You don't need to do a thousand and one things to impress a guy..They won't really care..really.
Number 5
They WILL always sneak at other women.. This.is..NORMAL. It is in their nature to do so.. So why go pinching or pulling their ears when they do so?? It's not like they're gonna sleep with her! Guy's will never care as much as girls when girls sneak at other guys..
Number 6
You think he will keep EVERY secret you tell him?? Not a chance.. Most of the men..will spill 2 or 3 dirt to their buddies..or so called "brothers". Not only women complain and nags out problems to their girl friends..guys do either. Just that..they don't overdo it like putting it all up on facebook. twitter or telling the whole world. The guys will only share it with their really close ones ..in a very minimal and casual way over a beer or yam cha session.
Number 7
They are not good in expressing emotions. This is true. Women expresses more emotions than men. So....if you keep telling him something deep from your heart..never expect the same kinda reply from him.. He will not be expressive as you. If he don't say a word..it doesn't mean that he doesn't care. He does..but he just don't know how or what to reply.
Number 8
If he tells you about his girl best-friend...Trust him..He will never fall for his own best friend despite all those cozy sharing moments.. No need to feel intimidated at all..UNLESS..if you feel there is something fishy going on between them.
Number 9
They can be vain. More vain than us infact.. They still need to look good and feel good..There comes the EGO. EVERY men have egos..some are just too high which is no good at all. They like impressing women. Come on..women have ego's too. Men ego's are more visible..Example: When they are lost..they wanna find out a way by themselves instead of relying on someone else..They love to "Tail-gate" cars which challenge them..They somehow just don't get over it ..They don;t really care bout danger at that time..different from us girls where safety is everything. And yes..they do "act-cool" at times.
Number 10
They do NOT shop like us women... They TAKE & GO. WE... look...see..look..see...compare...this and that...cannot make our mind up. They are not so fussy like us.
Number 11
Men don't have to pay for everything everytime. They'll appreciate you more if you are willing to share the bill or pay at certain times. Even if sometimes they won't accept when you offer, they will feel better about paying at the end of the day.
Number 12
GO WITH THE FLOW!
Love & always, Jules ♥